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Dear
Dharma Friends,
Today
we’ll discuss the process of death and
what happens after death. It is not an
easy subject. If I were to tell you that
there is much suffering after death, you
might be fearful of the pain you have to
endure after death. In such a mindset,
you would not be able to comprehend the
true nature of death. If I were to tell
you that life after death is serene and
peaceful, you might misunderstand me and
think that death is wonderful and is a
means of liberation. Therefore, I can
only say this: “Life is not
necessarily joyous, and death is not
necessarily miserable.”
Once,
there was a rich man who had a son in
the later years of his life. When the
boy was born, the house filled with
guests who came to congratulate the new
father. Among the guests was a Chan
master who was completely unmoved by the
festivities around him. Before long, he
started to cry. The rich man was puzzled
and asked, “Master, is there anything
wrong? Why are you so sad?” The Chan
master replied despondently, “I cry
because you have added another person to
the ranks of death in your family.”
An
enlightened person sees birth as an
extension of life, and death as the
start of another life. Birth is
not just about living, and death is not
just about dying. When we look at birth
and death as one, what is there to
rejoice about or grieve over? When
Chinese people see someone who is one
hundred years old, we often congratulate
him by saying, “May you live to be one
hundred and twenty.”
Every
year, on Remembrance Day (September 9th,
a holiday in Taiwan), the government
honors local elders and celebrates their
longevity. Let us think about this for a
moment: Is the occasion of someone
reaching the age of one hundred and
twenty really cause for celebration? If
a man were to live to be one hundred and
twenty, his one hundred-year-old son
might become sick one day and pass away.
One after another, his eighty-year-old
grandchild and his sixty-year-old
great-grandchild might also pass away.
This old man will no longer be able to
enjoy the happiness of spending time
with his descendents. As he lives
through the deaths of his children and
grandchildren, he is left all alone. In
a person’s life, there is nothing
harder to bear than the death of one’s
child. So, longevity does not
necessarily equal happiness. Often, with
longevity come loneliness, helplessness,
and physical infirmity.
Just
as we should not be obsessed with
longevity, we should also not fear
death. The mere mention of death often
provokes many frightful images in
people’s minds. In the Chinese
culture, many people worry that they
will be punished after they die—that
they will have to climb mountains of
knives or drown in pots of boiling oil.
If we really understood death, we would
see that dying is not unlike getting a
passport that allows us to travel to
another country.
How
liberating that would be! Death is a
path that we all must travel. How can we
face death in such a way that we feel
prepared and not overwhelmed? To do
this, we must understand death, the
nature of which I would like to discuss
with you in the following four sections.
I.
The Moment of Death to the State of
Death
Though
we all have lived and died through
countless rebirths, none of us can
recall the exact experience of death. We
do not know what death is really like.
According to the sutras, when we die, we
are still fully cognizant of all that is
going on around us. We may hear the calm
voice of the doctor announcing our death
or the sound of family members grieving.
We may still be able to see people
gathering around our body, trying to
move our body that is now bereft of the
signs of life. We may still worry about
the many things left incomplete. We may
feel ourselves moving among our family
and friends, wanting to tell them what
they should do. However, everybody is
overcome with grief, and no one can see
or hear us.
In
the Reader’s
Digest,
there was once an article about
one man’s near-death experience. One
day while he was driving, he had a
severe accident; the car was totally
demolished, and he was on the brink of
death. When the ambulance, paramedics,
police, and his family arrived on the
scene, his consciousness had already
left his body, and he felt himself
floating in the air. He could hear over
the din a group of people arguing about
how the accident happened, so he went
over to the police officer and tried to
tell him what had actually happened. But
the officer could neither hear nor see
him. None of the others took notice of
his presence nor could they see him. At
this time, he had only his consciousness
and was no longer in possession of his
body. He finally became aware that he
was floating outside of his body,
looking at it like an onlooker. He then
found himself passing at incredible
speed through a long, dark, and narrow
tunnel.
In
another case, a person spoke of his own
near-death experience when he suffered a
severe head injury and was brought back
from the brink of death. He said, “I
remember my head went ‘bam,’ and I
lost consciousness. Afterward, I just
felt warm, comfortable, and at peace.”
This is because once one’s
consciousness leaves the body, it is no
longer constrained and can therefore
feel a level of comfort and serenity
never before experienced. More cases
abound. One person also had this to say
about his near-death experience: “When
I was dying, I had an extremely good,
wonderful, and peaceful sensation.”
Another
man described his experience this way:
“I felt light as a feather. I was
flying freely toward a world of
brightness!” As we can see, death is
not as chilling and ghastly as we may
have imagined.
In
the sutras, it is written that our life
in this world is cumbersome, not unlike
a tortoise that is weighed down by its
heavy shell. When we die, we are able to
rid ourselves of this burden and
transcend an existence that has been
confined by the limits of our physical
body. However, when we are faced with
death, most of us still try to hold on
to the seven worldly emotions and the
six sensual desires. We are also unable
to let go of our sons, daughters,
grandchildren, or our wealth. We do not
want to die and cannot accept death
gracefully. We think of dying as a
painful experience, like tearing the
shell off of a living tortoise. Buddhism
does not share this view of dying.
Buddhism teaches us that when we die, we
are liberated from this body, and we
feel extremely free and easy. It is like
the relief of putting down a heavy piece
of baggage. How light and carefree it
is!
Whether
we are smart or slow, good or bad, we
all have to face death. Death is not a
question of if,
but a
question of how
and
when.
Even a powerful ruler like
the First Emperor of the Qin Dynasty,
who was able to unite the whole of
China, could not find any means to
prolong his life. The mythical Pengzu
might have lived for eight hundred
years, but on a cosmic time scale, his
life span was as short as that of an
insect, which lives only from morning
till night. All beings that live must,
without exception, also die. The
difference lies only in the
circumstances of death. The sutras
divide the circumstances of death into
four categories.
A.
Death Upon Exhaustion of One’s Life
Span
This
is what we call dying of old age. It is
like a flickering flame that dies out
naturally when its supply of oil is
exhausted. We would all like to live a
nice long life, but a human life span
has its limits. Life continues only with
each breath we take, but as soon as we
stop breathing, we die and return to the
soil. There is a saying which goes like
this: “Some only live from dawn till
dusk. Others are born in spring or
summer, and die in autumn or winter.
Some live for ten, a hundred, or even a
thousand years. Whether we live for a
short time or a long time, is there
really all that much difference?” What
this says is that our life span is
limited, and no one can escape this
reality.
B.
Death Upon Exhaustion of One’s Merits
It
is said in the sutras, “Humans do not
understand life and death; human eyes do
not discern [karmic] merits and
demerits.” Life is like an air bubble
on the surface of water; when the air
inside the bubble dissipates, the bubble
will no longer exist. After a rich man
squanders his wealth, he becomes poor.
Similarly, when we have exhausted our
merits, death will come knocking on our
doors.
C.
Death Caused by Accidents
This
is what we call “premature death,”
which means that one dies when one is
not yet supposed to. One may be killed
in a car accident, ambushed in a war,
murdered by an enemy, or attacked by a
wild beast; such deaths are sudden and
unexpected. There is a Chinese proverb
that is a fitting description of this
kind of sudden death. It states: “As
long as one continues to breathe,
possibilities abound. When death comes
around, all comes to a standstill.”
D.
Death at Will
The
three circumstances of death described
above are unpredictable and
uncontrollable. On the contrary, death
at will is without uncertainty and can
be planned. In Buddhism, this is often
referred to as “living and dying at
will,” and there are many great
Buddhist masters and sages who can be
born and can die at will. They are not
controlled by the cycle of birth and
death for the are completely in
tune with the coming together and the
breaking away of causes and
conditions.
Master
Daoan of the East Jin Dynasty is a
perfect example of such a master. He was
in full control of his own passing. On
February 8th of the 20th year of the
Jianyuan era, he assembled his disciples
in the great hall of Wuchong Temple in
Changan. After praying and paying
respect to the Buddha, he calmly told
his disciples, “I’m going to leave
now! All of you should continue to
spread the words of the Dharma and wake
the ignorant up from their delusions.”
Everyone was shocked and pleaded with
the Master, “Teacher, you’re in such
good health. You should stay and
continue the work of the Buddha. How can
you stop here and leave us now? It’s
time for lunch; please have lunch
first.” Daoan
answered, “Good, I’ll have some
lunch.” Having said this, he ate his
meal as usual. After lunch, he retired
to his room to rest and passed away
while resting. Master Daoan died at
will, completely free of pain and
suffering. If we practice the Dharma
diligently and become liberated from the
cycle of birth and death, we, too, can
attain enlightenment and enter
nirvana.
Now
that we have discussed the circumstances
of death, let us turn our focus to
another aspect of death. What are the
sensations of dying? The sutras tell us
of three sensations experienced in
death. They are:
1.
The imbalance of the great earth
element1
When
a person dies of an illness of the body
or bones, at the very moment of death,
the whole body may feel like a massive
piece of land sinking into the ocean. As
it gradually sinks and is buried, the
person feels suffocating pressure. The
sensation associated with this form of
death is described as “the great earth
element being submerged under the great
water element.
1
In Buddhism, we believe that the body is
made up of the four great elements of
earth, water, fire, and wind.
2.
The imbalance of the great water
element
When
a person dies of a circulatory disease,
he or she initially has a sensation of
being submerged in water, and feels both
wet and cold. This later gives way to a
burning sensation, and the person will
feel extremely hot. The sensation
associated with this form of death is
described as “the great water element
being engulfed by the great fire
element.”
3.
The imbalance of the great fire element
When one dies of a pulmonary disease,
he/she feels a burning sensation, like a
wildfire blazing at dusk. The body then
feels a searing pain as if being blown
into pieces by strong gusts and
scattered about like ashes. The
sensation associated with this form of
death is described as “the great fire
element being overwhelmed by the great
wind element.”
We
will now turn our attention to what it
is like immediately
after
death and before our next rebirth. The
sutras tell us that because our bodies
are transformed from a finite and
bounded form to a limitless and formless
state when we die, the way we feel
immediately following death is not all
negative. This may seem somewhat
surprising, but there are three good
reasons to explain this.
1.
The limit of time and space
When
we are alive, we are limited by time and
space. We cannot travel simply by
willing ourselves, and we cannot revert
the aging process that comes with the
passage of time. Upon death, [and before
our next rebirth,] we are liberated from
the constraints of the body, and our
true nature can move freely between the
three realms.
2.
The burden of the body
It
is said in the Dharmapada,
“The physical body is
the cause of all suffering on earth. The
sufferings of thirst and hunger; hot and
cold; anger and fear; lust, desires,
hatred, and tragedy—all of these stem
from the existence of the body.” While
we are alive, we spend a lot of time
taking care of our physical body.
When
hungry, we have to eat; when cold, we
have to put on more clothing; and when
ill, we have to endure the pain. This
body of ours brings us far more affliction
than happiness. If we pause for a moment
and take stock, we will notice that a
lot of our concerns pertain to our body.
However, after we die, our consciousness
is no longer subjected to the confines
of the body and all problems associated
with the physical body vanish with it.
There is no more hunger or sickness; a
huge burden is lifted from our
shoulders.
3.
The supernatural element
While
we are alive, our faculties are
restricted by the limitations of our
body. After death, we are no longer
bound by the laws of physics. We are
able to see things that are undetectable
to the human eye and hear sounds that
cannot be heard by the human ear. We are
able to float freely in the air since
the force of gravity no longer applies
to us. In this state, walls cannot stop
us, and we can travel simply by willing
it.
Death
is not an end; it is not a finale. On
the contrary, it is the beginning of a
new state of existence. When we die, the
physical body ceases to function, but
the consciousness lives on. In the time
after one’s death and before the next
rebirth, the consciousness is in a state
referred to in Buddhism as the
“intermediate state of becoming.”
Depending on the cumulative karma from
one’s previous lives, a being in the
intermediate state of becoming will be
reborn into one of the six realms of
existence.
Once
reborn, we forget all our memories of
previous lives. This is called
“confusion in-between lives.”
Because of this, we cannot recall any
sufferings of our previous lives in this
present life. Furthermore, when we are
reborn in our next life, we will forget
the worries of this present life. A poem
written by Emperor Shunzhi
says it well: “Before I was born, who
was I? At the moment of my birth, who am
I? If this grown man is me, then who
will I be after death?”
Actually,
it is not important for us to know our
past or future lives. We learn from the
Dharma that one
never
truly dies; what dies is the physical
body, a combination
of the four great elements. Though the
physical body dies, the consciousness
continues on without interruption. When
we realize that the physical body is
like a water bubble, as well as the
illusiveness of the world around us,
then we can accept death without
reservation.
II.
Judgment After Death and the Next
Rebirth
We
often think of the departed, wondering
about the kind of situation they might
be in. In Chinese Buddhist culture, it
is customary to pray for the dead when
we celebrate the New Year or various
other holidays. This is all very well if
it is done out of concern and respect
for departed parents or loved ones. Most
people, however, have the misconception
that their parents become ghosts in hell
when they pass away. Hoping that their
parents will rest in peace, children
often have prayer services for their
deceased parents. This kind of thinking
is actually quite disrespectful to our
parents because only those who have
committed grave transgressions will be
reborn as hungry ghosts or hellish
beings.
Does
this mean we think of our parents as
less than virtuous? Why do we not think,
instead, that our parents have gone to
the heavenly realm, or that they are
reborn in the Western Pure Land of
Ultimate Bliss?
All
over the world, many religions believe
that when we die, we are all first
judged on how we have led our lives.
Chinese folk religion believes that
after one’s death, one appears before
the Yama King who will mete out
judgment. Christians believe that when
they die, they come before God who
decides if they will be welcomed into
heaven or condemned to hell.
Buddhists
believe in judgment after death as well.
The difference is that we are judged,
not so much by the Buddha, bodhisattvas,
or the Yama King, but by our own karma.
The cumulative wholesome and unwholesome
karma of our past actions will determine
the realm of existence we will be reborn
into and the conditions in which we will
be reborn. In Buddhism, our happiness
and misery are not controlled by
deities, but are in our very own hands.
Where
does one go after death? Some people
believe that death is the final chapter
of one’s life and there is nothing
afterwards, let alone rebirth. To these
people, life is short and fragile.
Because of this perspective of death,
they view life with skepticism and fear,
instead of appreciating and treasuring
it. And since they believe they will
have nothing after death, there are
those who only know how to indulge in
pleasure while they are alive. Some are
willing to do anything, murder and
robbery included, to further their own
personal goals. Such a concept of life,
which denies the Law of Cause and
Effect, is superficial
and frightening, and is a wrong
view.
Although Christians
differ from Buddhists in their view on
how judgment is meted out, they do
believe in the existence of heaven and
hell and life after death.
In
Buddhism, we believe that after we die,
we will be reborn in one of the six
realms of existence. In fact, there is a
verse that can help living relatives of
the deceased assess the realm into which
their loved ones will be reborn. It
states, “The enlightened will emerge
from the head, and heavenly beings will
rise to the heavenly realm through the
eyes. Humans emerge from the heart and
hungry ghosts from the stomach. Animals
depart from the knees and hellish beings
from the feet.” This verse explains
that the last part of the body to remain
warm indicates the realm into which the
deceased will be reborn. When a person
dies, if the feet are the first place on
his body to go cold and the head is the
last place that remains warm, the
deceased has attained the fruit of
enlightenment. If the eyes are the last
body part to remain warm, this means
that the consciousness has left through
the eyes to be reborn in the heavenly
realms. If the heart is the last body
part to remain warm, the deceased will
be reborn as a human. If the belly stays
warm the longest, the deceased has
fallen into the hungry ghost realm. If
the knees retain warmth the longest, the
deceased will be reborn as an animal. If
the feet are warm to the very end, the
deceased has fallen into hell.
Which
realm of existence will we be reborn
into? How is this decided? This all
depends on the cumulative wholesome and
unwholesome karma of our past actions. A
saying reminds us: “If you want to
know about your future life, all you
have to do is reflect upon your present
life.” There are three kinds of karmic
forces, which determine the realm and
the conditions of our next rebirth.
These karmic forces are shaped by:
1.
The relative weight of our karma
The
way this karmic force works can be
likened to the way a bank auditor goes
through the accounts of customers; those
who owe the most money must be pursued
first. After a person dies, the relative
weight of the wholesome and unwholesome
karma will determine the destination of
his or her rebirth. A person who has
performed many wholesome deeds will be
reborn into the three upper realms,
while someone with a lot of unwholesome
karma will be reborn in one of the three
suffering realms. The principle behind
this is simple: “Good begets good; ill
begets ill.”
2.
Our habits
In
Buddhism, we believe that a person’s
habits can affect his or her rebirth.
For instance, someone may be in the
habit of chanting Amitabha Buddha’s
name. Should this person be in a fatal
accident, and the name of Amitabha
Buddha arises clearly in the mind at the
moment of death, then with this
single-minded focus, he can be reborn
into the Western Pure Land of Ultimate
Bliss.
3.
Our thoughts
A
person’s rebirth is closely linked to
his or her daily thoughts. If a person
is dedicated to the ways of the Buddha,
then he or she will be reborn in a pure
land. If a person really wants to enter
into heaven and practices accordingly,
the person will be reborn in the
heavenly realm. Thus, in our daily
practice, how we continuously maintain
mindfulness is the key. Whether it is
the weight of our karma, the force of
our habits, or the power of our thoughts
that leads us to our next rebirth, we
should always think the right thought,
practice wholesome deeds, and avoid
inflicting harm. This way, we need not
fear judgment or death.
III.
Burial Customs and the Way to Look at
Death
Every
culture has its own burial customs and
own way of tending to the body of the
dead. Some of these different ways of
preserving the body include freezing,
dehydration, dissection, or
mummification. Some bury their dead in
the ground while others cremate them.
Still others practice burials at sea,
and some actually observe open burials.
The
way Buddhists tend to their dead is very
similar to some of the above-mentioned
practices, with two major distinctions.
First, Buddhists favor the practice of
not moving the body until eight hours
after death. Second, Buddhists recommend
that we not cry loudly next to the body,
lest our cries disturb the dead.
Why
should we not move the body until eight
hours after death? Actually, there is a
scientific basis for this Buddhist
custom. After the lungs have stopped
breathing and the heart has stopped
beating, the nervous system may still
continue to function. Also, some
awareness may still remain in a
person’s subconscious.
Though a person may be clinically
dead,
he is not yet completely
dead.
Therefore, when someone
passes away, we should not move him in
any way regardless of whether the person
is sitting, lying down, or
half-reclining on the bed. If we try to
move the body, we may be causing
discomfort to the deceased, who might be
resentful and angry. Since the state of
mind of the deceased can influence his
or her rebirth, it is recommended that
the body not be moved for eight hours
after death.
In
Buddhist literature, there is a story
describing how disturbing the body of
the dead can lead to some unintended and
sometimes unfortunate consequences.
There was once a devout Buddhist king
who passed away. The royal family
gathered around the body and held vigil.
It so happened that a mosquito landed on
the king’s nose. One member of the
royal family tried to shoo the mosquito
away, but missed, instead slapping the
king. The king was very annoyed and
anger arose within him, causing him to
be reborn as a python.
There
is another reason why we should wait
eight hours before moving the body of
the dead. It is possible that a person
doing sitting meditation may enter a
state of meditative concentration in
which the pulse becomes almost
undetectable. To those who are
unfamiliar with the practice of
meditation, the person in meditative
concentration may appear to be dead.
There
is a story of an old monk who entered
into meditative concentration during one
of his sessions of sitting meditation.
When his young disciple felt for his
pulse and discovered that he was not
breathing, the disciple thought the monk
had passed away. Without further adieu,
the disciple had the body cremated. When
the old monk came out of meditative
concentration, he could not find his
body. From then on, the people in the
temple could hear the monk calling out
day and night, “Where’s my house?
Where’s my house?” They were
unnerved by his cries, so they asked one
of the monk’s good friends for help.
This friend arrived at the temple and
sat down quietly. When the old monk came
in search of his house (i.e. the body),
his friend loudly replied, “Just go.
Why do you still want bother with the
house?” When the old monk heard this,
he instantly attained enlightenment and
never looked for his house again.
In
the days when there was no accurate way
to ascertain if a person had died, this
Buddhist custom of not moving the body
of the dead for eight hours was a safeguard
against mistakes. In a book titled The
Truth of
Death,
there is a chapter about a man who was mistaken
for dead. It was once a Chinese custom
to collect the bones of the deceased a
few years after his or her passing. Many
years after this man’s death, the
family decided it was time to open up
the coffin and pack up his bones. When
they opened the coffin, they were
horrified to find his head turned and
his limbs bent in a fetal position. The
family inferred that they had mistaken
him for dead when he had really just
fainted. How horrified he must have been
to wake up and find himself in the
coffin. Thus, the Buddhist custom of not
moving the body of the dead for eight
hours is not without reason. It also
gives the family some time to calm down
and the deceased a moment of peace and
quiet.
During
the eight-hour waiting period, it is
best if the family helps the deceased by
chanting the name of the Buddha. This
way, the deceased can settle his mind on
the name of the Buddha as he makes the
journey to another rebirth. We should
also remember not to cry out loud near
the deceased. If we cannot control
ourselves and must cry, we should do so
away from the deceased. Though the body
may be stiff and cold, the consciousness
may still be lingering. Our grief can
cause the deceased a lot of heartache
and hinder the deceased from moving on
to another rebirth.
Is
it actually necessary to grieve over the
death of a person? We can think of dying
as going away on a vacation, and rejoice
over the happy and pleasant trip
awaiting the deceased. When our loved
ones pass away, we can think of them
going to the heavenly realms or becoming
a Buddha. Dying should be perceived as a
journey to the Pure Land of Ultimate
Bliss, a land where suffering is nowhere
to be found.
Is
this not wonderful? In Buddhism, we look
at death as the beginning of a new life,
like a chrysalis metamorphosing into a
beautiful butterfly, or a chick breaking
out of its shell. Why do those who are
alive hold on so tightly and feel such
sorrow for those who die?
In
regards to funeral arrangements,
Buddhism encourages cremation. It is
both convenient and sanitary, especially
in densely populated areas. Unlike
burials, cremations do not require much
space; they are also relatively
inexpensive. I remember an elderly monk
once said to me, “After I pass away,
please scatter my ashes into the ocean
for the fish and shrimp. That way, I can
build good affinities with the creatures
of the sea.” This is such a carefree
way to look at life and death, and is a
stark contrast to the egocentric
tendency most of us have. Some people
are very selfish and greedy. While they
are alive, they want to acquire this
plot of land or possess that one. Even
after they pass away, they still want to
compete with the living for the best and
most spacious grounds for burial. How
ridiculous that is!
Some
of you may say that a Buddhist funeral
is dignified, but too simple. How do we
show our love for the deceased if we do
not conduct an elaborate ceremony or
bury the dead at a picturesque site? I
guess the answer to this question really
depends on one’s view of death. If we
can truly let go of life and death, we
will not be restricted by the social
customs dictating what is appropriate
for funerals.
Zhuangzi,
a famous ancient Chinese philosopher,
was someone who did not feel restricted
by the social customs of the times. When
he was dying, his disciples gathered to
discuss his funeral arrangements.
Zhuangzi, who overheard the discussion,
laughed and said, “The heavens and the
earth are my coffin, the sun and the
moon are my treasures, the stars are my
gems, and I have the whole world to
accompany me. Aren’t these enough? Is
there anything more grand?” The
disciples listened in disbelief and
answered, “We can’t do that. If we
leave your body out in the open, the
crows and eagles will come and peck at
your body. It’s better if we use a
suitable coffin.” Zhuangzi
smiled and said, “What difference does
it make? If you leave me out in the
open, the crows and eagles will come and
peck at my body. If you bury me in a
coffin, the ants and maggots will still
come and feed on my flesh. Why do you
rob from the crows just to feed the
ants? Why are you so unfair?”
It
is not enough to just have the proper
funeral arrangements; we should also
have the proper perspective about death.
By cutting back on elaborate funeral
arrangements and using the money instead
for charity, we can allow the deceased
to leave some of his love behind for the
living. If circumstances permit, we
should not hesitate to participate in
organ donor programs to save the lives
of those in need. When we have the right
perspective about death, we can then
handle funeral arrangements with wisdom
and in such a way that both the living
and the dead benefit.
As
seen from the above-mentioned Buddhist
perspectives on funerals, Buddhists do
not perceive death as an annihilation or
eternal sleep. Buddhists look at death
as moving from one house to another, or
from one environment to another. In the
sutras, there are many similes about
death:
1.
Death is like being born again
Death
is the beginning [of another life]; it
is not the end. The process of death can
be likened to the process of making of
oil from sesame seeds or the creation of
butter from milk.
2.
Death is like a graduation
A
person’s life can be compared to a
student’s time spent in school, and
death is like the graduation. When we
graduate from school, our grades reflect
how good a student we have been.
Similarly, when we die, the
circumstances into which we are reborn
depend on the wholesome and unwholesome
karma we have accumulated.
3.
Death is like moving
When
there is birth, there is death. Death is
like moving out of an old house into a
newer house.
4.
Death is like the changing of clothes
Death
is like taking off old, worn-out clothes
and putting on new ones. When we can
grasp that all our experiences in life
are like floating clouds passing before
our very eyes, we will see that the body
is nothing more than an article of
clothing.
5.
Death is renewal
Our
body undergoes metabolic processes every
second. New cells are created when old
ones die. The cycle of birth and death
is similar to the process of creating
new cells to replace old ones. When we
possess the right perspective about
death, we will not be fearful of death.
What we should be concerned about is not
when we shall die, but what follows
after we die. When we are alive, most of
us can only think about enjoying
ourselves and having a good time. We
spend our time pursuing fame and
fortune, without a clear view of where
we are headed. A life without a clear
sense of purpose or direction is
meaningless. What are fame and fortune
to us when we lay dying on our
deathbeds? When we know how to live our
lives, then we will know how to handle
our deaths. Confucius once said, “If
one does not understand life, how can
one comprehend death?”
We
should not be consumed by our fear of
dying, when the real tragedy would be if
we lived our lives in delusion and
ignorance. We may be alive in body, but
dead in spirit. It is for this reason
that I have chosen to speak about death.
I hope that our discussion today will
help each one of us wake up from the
nightmare of death. The urgent task at
hand is for us to see life and death in
the context of impermanence, suffering,
and emptiness. If we can accomplish
this, we will be able to find meaning in
life and death.
IV.
Unusual Deaths and Extraordinary Deaths
Some
of you may ask how death can possibly be
wonderful and extraordinary. If we take
a moment to think this through
carefully, we will see that death
naturally becomes a wonderful thing.
When we have a correct understanding of
the Buddha’s teachings,we will see
through death’s cloak of mystery and
be completely at peace with both life
and death.
Chan
Master Fenyang Shanzhao stated it well
when he said: “One lives for all
beings and dies for all beings.” There
is a great story about the way in which Shanzhao
passed away. When Shanzhao was alive,
there was a powerful magistrate by the
name of Li Hou.
Li had always wanted Shanzhao to become
abbot of Chengtian Temple, and so he
offered the position to the Master on
three separate occasions. When the Chan
Master continued to deny his offers, Li
was so furious that he ordered a
messenger to pay the Master a visit and
personally escort the monk to the
temple. As the messenger was about to
set out, the magistrate told him
explicitly, “Listen carefully. If you
don’t come back with the Master, your
life will not be spared!”
The
messenger was petrified. He went to the
Chan Master and begged the Master to go
with him to Chengtian
Temple. When the Master learned of the
messenger’s predicament, he realized
he did not have much of a choice. He
gathered all of his disciples together
and told them, “How can I leave you
behind and go become the abbot of
Chengtian Temple? But if I take all of
you along, you won’t be able to keep
up with me.”
One
of the disciples went up and said,
“Master, can I go with you? I can walk
eighty miles a day.” The Master shook
his head and sighed, “That’s too
slow. You won’t be able to keep up
with me.” Another disciple called out,
“I’ll go! I can walk a hundred and
twenty miles a day.” The Master shook
his head again and said, “Too slow,
that’s too slow!” The disciples
looked at each other in confusion. They
all wondered: Just how fast could the
Master travel? At that moment, another
disciple quietly came forward. He bowed
to the Master and said, “Master, I
understand. I’ll go with you.” The
Master asked, “How much can you walk
in a day?” The disciple replied, “I
can walk however much the Master
walks.” Hearing this, the Master
smiled and said, “Very good. Let’s
go!” Smiling, and without as much as a
stir, the Chan Master sat down at his
Dharma seat and passed away. The
disciple who had volunteered stood
respectfully beside the Master and
passed away as well. To be able to leave
this world in this way is truly
liberating!
Chan
Master Depu of the Song Dynasty was
equally carefree when he passed away.
One day, he gathered his disciples
around him and said, “I’m about to
go. I’m not sure how you will make
offerings to me after my death and
whether I will have the time to come
back and enjoy them. This being the
case, why don’t we take advantage of
the time that I am alive and enjoy the
offerings now.” Though the disciples
felt their teacher was acting strangely,
they did not dare disobey their teacher.
They joyfully prepared the offerings and
paid their respects to their teacher,
thinking it was all a joke. Who could
have known that on the next day, as soon
as it stopped snowing, Chan Master Depu
would really pass away.
Some
of you might think that it is very
strange to have a funeral service for
someone before he has passed away, but
it is actually quite humorous and
practical. An old Chinese proverb
states, “Offering a drop of water to a
person while he is alive is better than
offering him fountains of water after he
dies.” In the same light, children
should be respectful to their parents
while they are alive instead of giving
them an elaborate funeral service after
they have passed away.
Chan
Master Zongyuan of the Song Dynasty was
also able to look at death as a kind of
emancipation. He was eighty-three when
he attained enlightenment and was
neither attached to life nor death. When
he felt it was time for him to leave the
world, he did so with grace and dignity.
He even composed his own elegy:
In
this world, no one lives beyond their
time,
For
after death, we will all become dust in
the grave.
As
I am now eighty and three;
I
write this elegy to bid my body
farewell.
The
manner in which Chan Master Xingkong
assed away is also legepndary. During
his time, there was a ferocious bandit
by the name of Xu Ming, who had killed
many people and caused a great deal of
suffering. Chan Master Xingkong could
not bear to see the villagers suffer, so
he decided to go and plead with the
bandit. Though he realized that his life
was in great danger, he did not fear. As
he ate his meal with the bandit, he
wrote this elegy for himself:
Faced
with calamity in the midst of upheaval,
I
am a jolly and fearless fellow.
There
is no time more perfect than now,
Cut
me in half if you please.
Xingkong’s
compassion and courage converted the
bandit, and many lives were saved as a
result. Later, when the Master realized
that the end of his life was at hand, he
announced that he wanted to depart while
sitting in a tub and floating along the
river with the flow of the water. The
Master climbed in the tub with a hole in
the bottom, with a flute in his hand.
The tub floated down the river amid the
music of the flute and passed away. The
Master also left behind a poem on why he
chose to leave the world this manner:
A
sitting or standing death cannot compare
to afloating departure.
It
saves firewood and the ground is not
disturbed.
Leaving
empty-handed is quite free and joyous.
Who
can understand me?
Venerable
Chuanzi2 can.
2
Venerable Chuanzi was a monk who also
preferred to die
At
the turn of the century, there was a
monk in Rangoon, Burma by the name of
Miaoshan. In 1934, Miaoshan
became ill with heatstroke and
malnutrition, and huge boils grew on his
feet and back. Even so, he continued to
make prostrations to the Buddha on the
hot cobblestones. The boils opened up
and became infected, oozing with pus and
blood. Still, he was unfazed by his
condition and refused medical treatment.
He would not even take a bath, and
nobody knew what to do. On the day of
his death, one of his disciples again
suggested to him that he should take a
cool bath. This time, the Venerable
nodded and replied, “I’m glad you
asked me to bathe. It’s time.”
With
these words, he went into the bathroom
and happily took his bath. The disciple,
who was worried about the Venerable,
stood by the door and urged him to take
a real good bath in order to cool off
his body. The Venerable chuckled and
replied through the door, “I know. I
must wash carefully. After this
cleaning, I won’t need one anymore.”
Several hours passed; the disciple could
only hear the sound of running water,
but the Venerable was nowhere in sight.
He pushed open the door only to while
floating on water. find that the
Venerable had passed away. Miao-shan was
still standing, but his heart had
stopped beating. When we can let go of
our attachments, we too will no longer
fear death.
There
are many more examples of Chan masters
dying peaceful deaths. Chan Master
Danxia Tianran died leaning on his
walking staff. Venerable Huixiang died
kneeling down with a sutra in his hand.
Chan Master Liangjie of the Tang Dynasty
had complete control over the timing of
his death; he was asked to stay alive
for seven more days and so he did. Chan
Master Yuan came back to life after he
had been in his coffin for three days.
Chan Master Guling Shenza asked
his disciples, “Do you know what
soundless samadhi
(meditative
concentration) means?” When his
disciples answered their master in the
negative, the Master closed his lips
tightly and died instantaneously.
The
ways in which Pang Yun and his family
passed away were even more varied and
fascinating. His daughter Lingzhao sat
on her father’s chair and passed away,
while Pang Yun lay himself down to die.
When his son, who was working in the
fields, heard of their deaths, he set
down his plow and died standing. Pang
Yun’s wife saw that all of them had
passed away, so she pushed open a gap in
a boulder and went inside. Before she
went into the boulder, she left behind
this verse:
To
die while sitting, lying down, or
standing is
not unusual
Mrs.
Pang simply let go and departed
With
both hands she pushed open a seamless
rock
And
left without a trace.
When
we have the wisdom to see through life
and death, we, too, can pass away as
painlessly and effortlessly as some of
the Chan masters we talked about today.
With birth comes death. Whether we are
Buddhists or not, we all still have to
face death one day. Hopefully, with the
Buddha’s teachings, we can understand
life, and therefore death. We should not
fear death for it is nothing but a
natural phenomenon. When we are prepared
in life, then can be hopeful for what
follows after death. We make provisions
for everything in life. We keep a
flashlight in case of emergencies or
blackouts.We have an umbrella for rainy
days. We pack food for long trips,
and we change our wardrobes to prepare
for the changing of seasons. Likewise,
we should prepare ourselves spiritually
for the day when death comes knocking on
our door. Not only should we have hope
for the present, we should also be
mindful of life after death. Amid the
impermanence of life and death, we
should keep in mind that the Dharma-body
3is eternal and the wisdom-life 4
is timeless. Our Buddha Nature is
everlasting!
3
The body of the Buddha’s teachings.
4
Our spiritual wisdom.
(Sources:
Fo Guang Shan International Translation
Center )
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