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Today's
Inspiration: March 18-Between Ignorance and
Enlightenment
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Take
Delight in Shared Joy
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Venerable
Master Hsing Yun |
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Sharing
joy with others is not only a virtue, it is also a
delightful experience. To take delight in shared joy
is to give willing support to those who are
compassionate in helping the needy; it is to give
genuine praise to those who have dedicated
themselves to the highest achievements in life. If
we want to be successful in this world, we must
cultivate the important virtue of feeling happy when
others have done what we cannot do ourselves. The
Buddha once said, "If there were really no
differentiation between the self and the other,
there would be no discrimination between merit
acquired from good deeds."
Unfortunately,
in today's society there are too many people who
take pleasure in the misfortune of others. Instead
of practicing the virtue of shared joy, they choose
to criticize at will and impart unwarranted abuse.
Instead of praising the charity of others, they
remark sarcastically that it is just a drop of water
in the vast ocean or it is just a boastful act. It
is indeed very sad to see that society in general
has become so deprived of amiable feelings. It is
not surprising that there are very few virtuous
people and even fewer virtuous acts.
Something
has definitely gone wrong in our society when the
majority of our fellow human beings are lacking a
good and agreeable nature. Instead of hoping for a
better future, it seems like everyone is content
waiting for doomsday to approach, when everything in
this world will be reduced to nothingness. Why do
people indulge themselves in jealous sarcasm and
baseless slander? Do we really want to see the end
of civilization or the end of our race?
What
we need to do is to cultivate and practice the
virtue of shared joy, to give encouragement and
exaltation as often as possible. Instead of feeling
jealousy or envy, we should instead feel happy for
others when they encounter good fortune. Instead of
pity, we should be compassionate and helpful toward
those who are less fortunate. Instead of
criticizing, we should praise other's good deeds no
matter how trivial they might be.
If
we really wish to better our country and society, it
is imperative for us to foster the virtue of shared
joy. We should be willing to cast our vote for
political candidates who are dedicated to serving
people. We should be happy to give our contributions
to those who are devoted to helping the needy. Where
there is a need for volunteers, we should put forth
all our efforts toward the common goal; where there
are good deeds, we should selflessly promote them to
achieve a more far-reaching effect.
Since
the world of shared joy is a delightful place to be,
we should strive to develop the habit of imparting
praise, doing good deeds, and supporting worthy
causes. If everyone in society can be amiable and
pleasant, it will create an atmosphere of great
peace, harmony and happiness for all the world's
people.
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